destroy what destroys you - Everyone has a past, and no one is perfect. We’ve all done some fucked up stuff at one point or another in our lives. People can and do change, not all, but plenty folks do. I think its wise to be mindful of a persons experiences, but not judge too harshly. Remember, someone has to be willing to accept all your dirt hidden under the rug too. - Everyone has a past, and no one is perfect. We’ve all done some fucked up stuff at one point or another in our lives. People can and do change, not all, but plenty folks do. I think its wise to be mindful of a persons experiences, but not judge too harshly. Remember, someone has to be willing to accept all your dirt hidden under the rug too.