destroy what destroys you - I believe in soulmates, but in the plural sense. And I think that we have perma-soulmates, for lack of a better word…someone who was meant to be in your life for a long time, and I think we have people who are more insta-soulmates in that they come into your life, teach you something, and then you’ll both end up going your separate ways. I think the term applies to both friends and romantic relationships. - I believe in soulmates, but in the plural sense. And I think that we have perma-soulmates, for lack of a better word…someone who was meant to be in your life for a long time, and I think we have people who are more insta-soulmates in that they come into your life, teach you something, and then you’ll both end up going your separate ways. I think the term applies to both friends and romantic relationships.